tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3421046934953813196.post6278389885260668247..comments2023-10-31T01:48:53.527-07:00Comments on "Picture Perfect": Anonymous Bloggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07973492018655035709noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3421046934953813196.post-35501256260653479352009-06-17T14:22:29.174-07:002009-06-17T14:22:29.174-07:00A very interesting spin - I love the way you are t...A very interesting spin - I love the way you are thinking about this and I agree. I try to choose my friends very carefully, and I also work VERY hard to keep my friends "outside" my relationship as close as I can, and as independent as I can.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3421046934953813196.post-49781222434913567862009-06-17T12:21:48.268-07:002009-06-17T12:21:48.268-07:00i know the feeling. some people just don't kno...i know the feeling. some people just don't know how to juggle friends and a relationship at the same time. i've done it before, it's also happened to me. you seem like a great friend though, and to be there for someone even after months of no contact = a good friend.danniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06767436645666296908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3421046934953813196.post-86945891411348260752009-06-17T11:14:38.855-07:002009-06-17T11:14:38.855-07:00You know what else also sucks?
Being the one that...You know what else also sucks?<br /><br />Being the one that people whine to about their gf/bf while they're in the relationship. -_- Seriously people, just talk to the ones you're whining about!Aekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12183623849361560922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3421046934953813196.post-45202910112625647842009-06-17T06:41:46.579-07:002009-06-17T06:41:46.579-07:00you actually put an interesting spin on friendship...you actually put an interesting spin on friendships. i can totally relate - being a friend does mean being there when things are tough for another friend. but that can't be the only aspect of friendship. it needs to include the good times as well.<br /><br />so, i think you're right that it's unfair to you when your friendship is wanted only when the other person is in crisis mode or single mode.<br /><br />you deserve friends that you can trust, respect, and count on too... <br /><br />now, having said that, perhaps there's a piece of you holding back. i just hope ssoon you cna find a friend that is there for you in good and bad times, who is a shoulder for you to lean on instead of you just having the soggy shoulder, and someone you trust enough to share some things that are hard to share with anyone.<br /><br />in any event, i think its ok to be bitter, and maybe its something you can talk to with your clueless friends?Random Thinkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15158771664635380371noreply@blogger.com